“Then slowly, over time, everything changes. And you’re no longer this young thing, and you don’t believe in fairytales and ‘perfect’ isn’t in your vocabulary. And then suddenly, here is this man and he becomes so familiar to you that one day you find yourself looking at him thinking I could love this person for the rest of my life.”
Addison Montgomery, Grey’s Anatomy.
Happy 16th Anniversay. Happy 26th year of together. Somehow being with you just makes sense.
“Women has this thing in her body called expectation.”
“So, expectation is bad?”
“It is for us, men. Because we’ll never reach their expectation.”
-taken from Chowder, the tv series
This year on the 14 of October, we have been in our 14 years of partnership -and another 10 years of relationship- and expectations often become the roots of all heartaches. Especially on my side. Chowder’s father couldn’t be more right telling Chowder about expectation. Women hold to it firmer than men do.
Hari ini 12 tahun pernikahan saya dan Papap. Ditambah 10 tahun jumlah waktu saya dan si Papap pacaran. Diantara tahun-tahun yang dia tidak ingat atau sedang berada di tempat lain yang passportnya berbeda, tahun ini si Papap ternyata ingat hari anniversary kami.